Question of the Day: “What can you take away from Don Miguel Ruiz’s four agreements?”

Today I am thinking heavily about the third agreement: “Don’t make assumptions.” Ruiz writes that we are living in a dream, and we turn this dream into a nightmare every time we assume what others are thinking or feeling about us. Oh, is this so true for me. My empathic abilities, which always enable me…

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Question of the Day: “What is Kintsugi and why is it important for reflection?”

Kintsugi is the Japanese art of putting broken pottery pieces back together with gold, but truly I think it is a metaphor for embracing all flaws and imperfections. Let me explain and simplify with the literal definition of a very complex process of both art and science: Kintsugi is the ancient art of repairing broken pottery…

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Advice to 30 Somethings from a Forty Something

After the past seven years, I am feeling pretty schooled in the ways of the world. In addition, this past COVID year and recent changes in my life have caused me to feel as if I have advice to give. You may be thinking what my qualifications are for giving you advice. Here is my…

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Parenting #101: “The conversational dilemma and arguing with your child”

My two boys are extremely different. Cole is my arguer. If I say…well, just about anything, he will tell me I am wrong. He often asks “why” and try and talk his way out of every directive. It’s exhausting. When it comes to healthy conversations where we could find some connection, he completely shuts down…

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Parenting #101: “It’s all about the controls”

Anyone raising a teenager knows about the power struggles. It reminds me of when I would play tug-of-war in elementary school. Tug, pull, release, drag, one step closer to the line…one step further away. Other days, it can feel more like a seesaw. The other person has just as much control as you do. It…

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Anger and the Empath

Anger is a tricky emotion. When I feel it in people, it feels like a wind storm.  There is such much swirling and debris.  It is explosive.  It arises in people quickly and sometimes dissipates quickly. Depending on the underlining catalyst, anger is unpredictable to me. I can never see it coming.  When people are…

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Starting To Grow

Over the past two weeks, I have joined some Facebook groups that are made up of like-minded people. When I say like-minded people, I mean people who have an interest in the things we cannot see: intuitive abilities, spirits, manifestation.  In these groups I’ve felt more comfortable with detailing the things I write about here.…

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In Need of Advice

Since the January Wolf full moon, my mind has been elsewhere.  I keep getting this feeling that I need to do more with my gifts.  I feel this tremendous pull towards wanting to advise and help people (particularly women) with their emotional pain. My ability to feel others people’s emotions and receive pictures and vibes…

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Some Things Cannot Be Taught

Yesterday, Jonah and I were getting ready to take our dog, Lope, for a walk.  Phoenix, our white and black cat, ran quickly out the door.  This is not a big deal since he gets out almost daily and walks around the wooded area that surrounds our home. As we put Lope on her leash…

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Moving Through Monday

Another Monday, and the rest I received from my slow paced Sunday really had zero effect on my energy level today. In addition, it is a balmy 60 degrees at the beginning of February, but this damn building is still cold.  How do concrete buildings do it?  How are they able to lock in so…

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