Question of the Day: “What do I want my boys to remember when they get older?”

As I straightened up the kitchen this morning, I started singing Cat Steven’s Father and Son song. It’s such a beautiful song from a son to his father. Though sad, it’s message is clear: the son has learned much from his father, but he feels his father doesn’t understand him. He feels like his father…

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Question of the Day: “What lessons did I learn from my son on our nightly run?”

My son and I have been running nightly for the last week. He’s much faster than I am, so we walk to our starting spot and then he takes off. I jog casually behind him until he is done. After he runs his distance at his own pace, he turns around to meet me and…

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Question of the Day: “When can I ease up on my teen?”

As a teacher, I have encountered every kind of parent. There have been helicopter parents, complacent parents, uninvolved parents, lawn mower parents, and I have never really settled on what kind of a parent I am. My son and husband have often said that I am too involved and I need to back off. My…

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Family & the Empath

“All parents damage their children. It cannot be helped. Youth, like pristine glass, absorbs the prints of its handlers.” Mitch Albom Family is so important. I don’t think I always believed this. When I was growing up, my family wasn’t very healthy, so I brushed aside the need for them. My friends took the place…

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The Tortoise Whisperer

A few weeks ago, Tom our family’s tortoise, fell ill.  It happened so quickly.  One day he seemed happy, and the next day he seemed like a complete goner.  He was not eating. He could barely pick up his head.  His eyes were almost perpetually closed.  I prepared Jonah for the worst.  He was unfazed. …

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Single Mom Life: Brothers (A Family in 3 Parts)

Brothers Once upon a time there were three Brothers… A girl separated them People would ask if the “only girl” was treated like a princess and the family would snort and laugh  “no” the three Brothers the three Brothers the three Brothers were so special each unique in his own way For the Father thought…

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